Live for Today!

This past weekend, I had the unfortunate opportunity of saying good bye to a  young man that was taken from this world far too soon. At the young age of 29, he was tragically killed in a vehicle accident. Set to be married in December and an avid hunter and hockey fan, his death came as shock to his family and friends. While it had been at least ten years since I last say or spoke to him, I was quickly reminded what a great young man he was. 

As I waited patiently in what seemed like a never ending line, I caught myself flashing back to those early days of my coaching career. It was through my early years as a football coach that I met this young man and his family...and all his friends for that matter. Starting in 7th grade, then 9th grade, and finally as a Sophomore on the JV squad. He brought a smile and a wit to every practice, every game! He had this infectious ability to make you laugh, while he worked his tail off to be the best he could be. 

And so here I stood, waiting in line to pay my condolences. Surrounded by young men and women who I grew up coaching and noticing they are beginning to start families, a harsh reality hit me hard. Here lies a young man, destined for great things and eager to start a family, lying in a casket. Nothing in life is guaranteed. We are only given today as a gift and we must choose wisely how we live for today. We have the choice to make the best of each day, approach others with kindness, and share our positive attitude with everyone we encounter. 

And while the events of the day left me emotional, somber, and reflective, I realized I must continue to push on chasing my destiny in hopes of providing the opportunity for someone else to claim Iron Man status. When I don't feel like training, I must look in the mirror and remind myself of the time I was standing at his casket, wondering could this happen to me? I commit to Owning My Destiny and putting the hopes and dreams of someone else ahead of my own fear, pride, and pain. 

As I end, I feel remiss if I don't remind you to hug your loved ones a little longer the next chance you have. Pick up the phone and tell them you love them. Take hold of what you love the most and share love!

#OwnYourDestiny #RunLikeAngels